HELP! My house is not my home.
Posted by Jade on October 13th, 2010 . Filed under: House & Home, My Life .
My house does not feel like my home. We have been renting a three bedroom house in South East London for almost three years now and I feel like I’m yet to make a stamp on it that makes it my own.
Maybe because the room that we use as a study had previously been used as a nursery and has been decorated with a frieze of teddy bear wallpaper – lovely, yes but for me, it’s just a reminder of things I’m yet to achieve. It doesn’t help that the study is being used as an office come holding place for our overflow of clothes and you can’t see the floor 99% of the time. Our bedroom needs a coat of paint desperately and don’t get me started on the bathrooms. Two words, mold central. The kitchen is not so bad, but there is hardly any workspace.
A year ago, I suggested to G that we try to redecorate as much as we could without spending a fortune. We asked the Estate Agent if we could re-paint some of the rooms in return for a reduction on our monthly rent. At the time, our landlord was in the process of transferring the ownership of his houses to his son and told us that his son would get back to us. A year later, we got a letter saying that any painting or decorating could be done at our own cost but also had to be returned back to its original state when we moved out. We nixed the idea straight away and left it at that.

Now I’m a blogger and I read some wonderfully amazingly creative blogs where people post pictures of their house and I wonder how easy it could be just to change a few things, put up a few pictures and voila, house becomes a home. I wrote out a list of ideas and I’ll be slowly crossing them off over the next few months as money allows – we are currently saving £800 a month towards a deposit for a house in a new development in Sydney – and of course I will share them on the blog.
- Order A3 prints of wedding photos, one of me, one of G, one of us together and one of the entire bridal party.
- Organize frames for wedding photos and hang personal ones in bedroom and group ones in lounge room.
- Buy a few prints off Etsy and hang on walls in spare rooms – well the office/study/junk room until our housemate moves out.
- Re-organize bedroom, sort out bed linen and buy new duvet and pillows.
- Work out how the heck to get rid of all of the mold in the bathrooms and then look at storage options for en-suite.
- Clean out bookshelves and re-arrange living/dining room.
- Clean out kitchen and re-assess what we really need in regards to crockery, cutlery and other assorted kitchen junk. Buy a new set of dishes, plates and more glasses (why the heck do I manage to break so many of those darn things!)

A big list and a pricy one too, with all of the purchases I’d like to make. I think it’s time to start thinking about asking for gift vouchers for Christmas for John Lewis and Marks & Spencer!
Are you renting a house and hate the way it looks or feels? I’d love some advise from those who have re-decorated rental properties on the cheap without painting or serious decorating being done.
All images from ApartmentTherapy.com.

October 13th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
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October 14th, 2010 at 2:24 am
Hi Jade – thanks for visiting my blog. It’s always lovely to meet a new blogger. We also lived in London in my twenties (for four years) before we married. So a bit in common there!
I know that itchy feeling when your home isn’t how you would like it to be. As you’re renting, your ideas are all good ones. You just need to surround yourself with the things you love and worry about the rest when you are more permanent.
I’ll enjoy following your progress. x
October 15th, 2010 at 6:32 am
We are renting at the moment after a long stint of home owning. It was hard at first, but we have managed to make the home ours in a few ways.
* we smack nails in willy nilly to hang all our art work. The walls are white & we can patch it & paint when we leave.
* Bought and hung our own blinds & curtains that we can then take with us.
* All our furnishings are a similar colour and all the soft furnishings are shades of red or black, I buy from markets, ikea, where ever, but stick to the same tones. Our furniture is a mix of new, vintage & antique, so we don’t look like we live an a catalogue, but it speaks of us (if that makes sense)
* Every room here is filled with stuff we love. But I try to make sure any new purchase has a purpose and fits in with the over all look of the house (which is kinda eclectic, hippy, retro, yeah what a mix!) I have favourite 2nd hand stores I love to go to, and have sourced some great retro stuff off eBay.
Also, every few months we go through and re-sort stuff & make a list of what needs to be bought, stored etc… and stick to the list.
Good luck! Looking forward to seeing what you do xxx
October 16th, 2010 at 4:15 pm
Thanks Nomie & Maxabella for all of your thoughts! I’m in the process of going through everything in our lounge room and just tidying up in general and then I’ll get to work with stuff for the walls – I’ve got my little action plan and I’ll be sure to share it with you!